1.    Use the N-word only when describing it in its historical context.   Its history permanently disables its use as a “term of endearment.”

2.    Build up your personal level of self-respect, dignity, and pride because when you feel empowered, you will want to and can share that empowerment with others.

3.    Seek knowledge and empowerment through self-educating regularly.   You command respect by your actions – not by telling people they ought to respect you.

4.    Use Brother and Sister (or Sir, Ma’am, Miss) regardless of the situation or environment – whether it is pleasant or hostile.   Kindness disarms negativity.

5.     Take note of how and when it’s used in your space (public and private) – and respectfully, kindly, and with love ask that...